Permaisuri Siti Aishah - Part 7 (90%) - The End (UPDATED)

Permaisuri Aishah - Part 7

Permaisuri Aishah - Part 7 (90%) - The End

Adalah sebaik-baiknya anda tidak memberi sebarang komen sehingga saya habis menulis artikel ini kerana selain anda memberi pahala kepada saya secara percuma setiap hari diatas komen-komen lucu yang ditujukan pada saya, blog ini juga hampir mencecah 1 juta tetamu dalam masa tak sampai 14 hari kerana komen anda semua. ..tapi kalau nak komen juga, saya tak halang sebab sudah jadi lumrah manusia, yang dilarang itulah kita nak buat..he he..hentam je labu..Minta maaf yer...Terima kasih...

Sayang...

Mantan isteri saya, Cik Manja (Mardziyaton bte Darus) juga menyimpan rahsia "Cinta Syyhh" ini. Walaupun sudah tiada jodoh diantara kami berdua, kami saling berhubung dan hubungan persaudaraan masih kukuh sehingga hari ini demi anak-anak.

Gee juga tahu kisah "Cinta Syyhh"...

Gee & my grandkids (pramlee & sarah)

Gee, Liza & Mona

Dato Seri....punca saya jadi 'buas' kerana pistol itu...Nasi sudah jadi bubur...

Aisyah, semuga pendedahan ini membuat banyak pihak lega...

Mama... masih ingatkah lagi kata-kata ini..."Syed, tolong mama pujuk aisyah tidur semalam saja di hotel malam ini, baki duit 2 malam lagi tu syed ambillah..." dan Syed yakin mama pasti ingat apa jawapan yang Syed berikan .. " Syed tak nak duit tu mama...ini tanggungjawab syed"

...Pinggir 'sayang' pinggir kerja, kerana "Cinta Syyhh" aku turutkan...

Permaisuri Aishah mengotakan janjinya..."Sehari bersama Uncleseekers" di Saufiville. Namun saya hanya mampu luangkan masa beberapa jam saja bersamanya...

Gambar kenangan Aisyah bersama kedua orang tua penasihat perbadi saya Lawrence Tee dan Syed Putra yang merawat kesihatan permaisuri aisyah

Mama...tercetusnya idea "Cinta Syyhh" dari siapa...?

Dato Seri ada pistol, wang ringgit, pangkat dan pengaruh... saya hanya ada "keyboard"

Hasil seni Chekri sempat dilawati oleh Aishah di Janda Baik

Aishah akan bantu abang beri idea untuk projek abang ini...

Boleh dikatakan Saudara Kuat Chee Kiat sentiasa berada bersama saya dalam episod "Cinta Syyhh" ini.

Terdapat 3 jenis kawan dan musuh dalam hidup kita. (Saidinana Ali)

Kawan
1. Kawan kita
2. Rakan kawan
3. Musuh kepada musuh kita

Musuh
1. Musuh kita
2. Rakan musuh
3. Musuh kawan kita

Tetiba saya teringat kata-kata sukarno, lebih kurang sebegini.. "kalau kau berikan aku 1000 orang tua, aku bisa ratakan gunung tetapi kalau aku punyai 10 orang pemuda, aku bisa menawan dunia"

Saya kenal anda siapa...

Terima kasih kepada semua rakan-rakan seperjuangan yang sedang membantu saya menyiapkan buku ini. Versi Melayu bertajuk "Cinta Syyhh" dan Inggeris "The Queen & I". Kalau di IZINkannya, ada dipasaran sebelum pertengahan atau selewat-lewatnya hujung bulan Disember. Saya akan maklum sebarang info terbaru tentang buku ini.

Where it started...
Aishah and family comes to janda baik to seek my assistance to relieve her of health and psychiatric complications.

Being a muslim, we should always love, care and help people when in need within our own capacities.

Under normal circumstances, I usually treat people whose ailments are relatively serious as I am quite tied up with my current work and ongoing projects. After hearing her laments, I decided to step in and help where I can. Standing by to my principle, “ To seek the truth”.

Immediately I gave it my all, while shelving my current works to assists her and her family. Mama and Dato Seri was especially thankful and very appreciative.

I really have great respect for them as they have journeyed all the way to see me, a nobody, in janda baik... maybe it was God’s work, thus I accepted the task at hand. No pengeras was mention or requested from my end , it’s a healing, not a business transaction.

The Treatment...
As for the health complications, I referred her to a trusted Professor and he took on her case, and after 2 months of treatment her health complications were solved. As for her psychiatric issues , it was a challenge and all I could offer was advice and counseling, thus we eventually spent a lot of time together be it on the telephone or in person.

I have counseled her “one on one” and with her immediate family numerous times up till a point where mama mentioned that she feels bad for me spending most of my time with them instead of my ongoing works.

Hence, she did what every mom would do, she offered me a remuneration for the time that I spent to assist her daughter. She insisted and was very sincere about it. thus I accepted.
As things went by, I realised that Aishah had grown feelings towards me... at this point I was a taken aback as I already have someone that I love dearly. I will not disclose her as it has no relation whatsoever to this story.

It was hard for me to just ignore Aishah or keep away as she was my patient, I had to treat her equal and as you know, I was aiding her with psychiatric complications , and can be extremely tricky to deal with...

I carried on treating and spending time with her to give her advice n counseling...sometimes with my Sayang present. I deeply respect and salute my Sayang that she is so strong to go thru this with me. She is the most understanding person that I have ever met in my life.

God knows I love her dearly. God willing we’ll get married one day, as it has been many years.

I could not blame aishah for what she did to me or for falling for me cause I totally understand her situation and her complications especially after our king passed away. So at that point in time I did what any self respecting person would do.I was there by her side, to listen, and a good one at that.

Life is a balance. Like everything in this universe. Where there is and in flow, there must always be an outflow. More often than that, not always your family may not be the best persons for an outflow of emotions and thoughts. Everyone needs a friend. As the saying goes, “a friend in need, is a friend indeed”. In her current situation, she was restricted from having friends for obvious reasons, thus, I was her friend.

I am grateful for her family, especially mama & dato seri for having trusted me to treat our beloved former Queen, by accepting to treat her, I knew that I had taken a very heavy responsibility on my shoulders.

I would take this time to also thank my father (Syed Hussein Al Attas) who since young have tought me how to treat people with love & care as we are all God’s subjects. I thank my father for giving me his love and care and loads of great advice and sharing his wisdom for me to move my life forward.

I don’t blame her family for bringing her to see me, as it was only normal for anyone to seek of ways to help their loved ones get back on life’s track, to live life to the fullest. I’m so glad to see that she has a good family with good virtues and values.Mama & Dato Seri, have search far and near, high & low with all forms of treatment but to no avail, thus they saw me for alternative healing.

I told mama & Dato Seri after few meetings that Aishah’s complications were not Spiritual based but rather more Psychiatric issues. I’m not saying that she is crazy or insane...but instead she needs lots of help, support & guidance to open up her heart , & mind, to get over issues of the past. It was probable that was why spiritual treatment could not help her much.

After much feedback and observations from her side, I noticed that on of the reasons she has become what she is now, is probably because she has been cooping herself up in her home. Her own safe zone perhaps. Dwelling in matters of the past, or perhaps trying to relive or even deny the existence of the current reality or future. Starving the mind from growth.

Let’s face the fact, put yourself in her shoes.

What would YOU do after you went through what she went through???

How would you bring her back to reality???

How would you help her live a normal life???

From being a subject to a Queen and back to where it started...

Would you be the same person after such an elevation of status or rank of being recognized throughout the world, and to just have it all removed overnight?

Her complication is not by choice, thus she cant be blamed. Perhaps if you were in her shoes, maybe you might end up being the same, and who knows, maybe you might end up looking for me for treatment? Ha Ha!

In the event that you do, I will treat you the same, without any regrets as I believe if we help people genuinely, God will reward us, but... don’t go falling for me ya!

Why?

Its obvious everyone who reads my blog will and have questioned my motive n purpose for posting it up.

The reason is not so simple,

I’m an average person who believes in God. I’m old with two kids and two grand kids. I’m happy with my life as I hace a woman whom I love dearly , my family, friends and supporters.

So do u seriously think that I need this kind of mess or publicity???

I’m already tied up with my work and projects, so much so I don’t even have enough time for my loved ones. Of course they are complaining as well! What can I do? A man provides, I’m just doing what any man would do for his family. Provide.

Hence knowing that I’m old 44 yrs of age and got grandkids do u seriously think I would do anything to jeopardize my family?? Plsssss put yourself in my shoes I beg u....

The question comes back to my motive n purpose.... now let me explain it clearly to u.

I hope u bear with me till I finish.... so let me talk.


It goes back to family values ladies and gentlemen!!


Question 1: Do u think it is wrong for a father to care and love for his daughter?
Question 2 : Do u think is wrong for a father to protect his daughter?
Question 3: Do u think is wrong for a father to do whatever it takes to protect his family???

The answer is clearly no!!!!!!!

Therefore I cannot blame Dato Seri, for whatever he has done to me.
I have lots of love and respect to Aishah, Mama and Dato Seri for what they did for her.


This is what happened

Me and her family used to meet up a lot in many locations, from Janda baik, her house in ampang and to other places...

In the beginning it was all good... Mama and Dato’ Seri was happy.
Mama knew that I’m only being a friend.


Where troubles start...

Things took a major turn when Dato Seri noticed that Aishah was falling for me...
Being a loving father he was very concerned about the matter. This is normal for a father to feel so.

So one fine day. when me and Kuat ( my favorite assistant) went to her house to collect some stuff,. Kuat went in the house whilst I was outside the house talking to the father (Dato Seri). We had some small talk and he said,

“Syed punya uniform macam SWAT tapi takde pistol!”

Immediately after, he went on to take out his gun while saying “I have a gun”.

Immediately, I was taken aback, and felt threatened, I was scared to be honest...

So assuming that Dato did not know the real story, maybe Mama did not convey what going on. I can’t judge a person like that. So I kept quite.

Kuat came out from the house, and Dato invited us for dinner.

At the restaurant...

My thoughts was still fixated on the fact that he flashed me a gun, but, more, I was wondering on the reason he did so, or the intention for flashing me.

Generally, no one tell you they own a gun let alone, to flash it. So, why pull a gun on me? The question goes on and on in my head...

During diner, the question about me & Aisha was raised. (I expected something of this sort, with the whole gun flashing incident)

So I went on to explain to him that I’m just fulfilling my responsibility to treat his daughter.
Dato’s reply was,

“Syed stop calling my daughter from now onwards!”

I was shocked!

I replied him, “Ok”.

Also explained to him that it was Aishah who always calls me and not the other way around.

With God’s grace, Aishah called me 4 times, and asked me to go to her house.

Dato and Kuat were witness to this.

After dinner all of us, including Dato Seri went over to Aishah’s house. That was the last time I saw her. She noticed something amiss and persistently kept calling me. As a friend, I answered her calls, but never called her in respect to her father’s wishes.

I kept on counseling her when she calls, I was always there to lend a ear. As earlier mentioned, Mama had offered me weekly remuneration for the time spent with her daughter.

On the fourth week of treatment, Aishah calls me to go the her house to collect the said remuneration. So I casually requested her to inform Mama first out f respect. About 30 minutes later I called to confirm if she had to Mama I’m coming over. This would be the fourth payment I would be receiving from mama.

The phone rang, Aishah picked up and I asked “Aishah can I speak to Mama?” she went on to pass the phone to mama. I asked“ mama can I come over?” she answered“ Astaghfirullah halazim....” and she hang up the phone.

I sat down calmly and thought to myself... “mmm... maybe something is not right over there. I have been helping people most of my life... never bothered about the remuneration anyway so I just let it go and moved on”.

Later Aishah calls back and ask me to go and collect the remuneration, I told her “ Don’t worry about it, it was never about the remuneration right from the start” I also told her that I have to concentrate back on my work, projects and family since she is already getting better.

I wished her all the best in her future undertakings, but she was not pleased with parting ways with me.

The next day someone else by the name of ’X’ called me from a tudung shop and ask me to go there and collect the remuneration. I was a little annoyed as I was already focused full force on my work and projects so I told X , “I’m not interested”.

I carried on doing my work and resumed my meetings.

A few days later, while having a meet with my crew, I received a text from Dato Seri’

“Salam. Im ready pay u now. Pls now”

Dato is offering me money. This worried me a lot! Because of the constant pressure to collect the remuneration.

I already moved on. Thu si ignored the sms.

Most of my close friends and family knows, money to me is just a mode of exchange. It means nothing to me. Moreover this treatment I did secara ikhlas. This is how I live my life till today. So when a person can offer money that’s shows he is a desperate man.

A desperate man can virtually do anything in this world to accomplish what he has in mind.

And with the constant pressure to collect payment, I was puzzled.

I really did not know what is his next course of actions was going to be...

At this point my worries were at the peak. I started to worry about my family and my loved ones.

I’m just an average man and he is a desperate Dato Seri with gun and connections.

I know I can’t go to the cops because this is a domestic issue.

What other choice do I have If you were in my shoes??

Being a blogger I am armed only with my keyboard.

I was worried for the safety of my family. Again I say, I don’t blame him for his actions cause he is doing it out of care for his daughter.

I was also worried if he went to the media first and maybe perhaps ruin mine or my family’s reputation.

Since I have all the proof and evidence, I blogged about it first to protect my self and my family, just like wut he did.

I totally understand his concern. but now I beg all of u who reads this try to understand both our situation and let this issue rest from now on.

End of story...

This is the story of two loving fathers who by some miscommunication became instead a battle to save their own familes. A story that is watched by the world, and most of you comment without knowing the entire truth.

To those who mock me I forgive all of u as u did not know the truth. To those who were supportive all the way I thank you for trusting me.

Also for you information, there are two publishers who approached me to have a discussion. They felt the need for a more detailed book to be published in order to clear my name and also to reach out to those without internet connections and may have read via the newspapers and etc. I have agreed to do so.

So for the love of god lets all put this story to an end and let’s move on with our life.

Allah disanjung!

I really wonder what is next....
Now please give this tired old man a break cause he needs to spend time with his love ones..

‘TO SEEK THE TRUTH’
Uncleseekers


Alkisah bermulalah....

Aishah dan keluarganya datang ke Janda Baik untuk mendapatkan bantuan saya merawat komplikasi kesihatan dan psikiatrinya (mental/jiwa).

Sebagai seorang Muslim, kita sepatutnya sentiasa menyayangi, prihatin dan membantu orang yang memerlukan pertolongan menurut kemampuan kita sendiri.

Dalam keadaan biasa, saya hanya merawat seseorang yang mengalami penyakit yang agak serious (sahaja) memandangkan kesibukan dengan kerja semasa dan projek-projek yang sedang saya kendalikan. Selepas mendengar keluhannya, saya mengambil keputusan untuk membantunya di mana yang boleh. Dengan prinsip pegangan saya, “Mencari Kebenaran” (To seek the truth).

Langsung saya bersetuju, dengan menangguhkan kerja-kerja semasa saya untuk membantunya dan keluarganya sendiri. Mama dan Dato Seri khususnya, sangat berterima kasih dan menghargainya.

Saya sangat menghormati mereka kerana sanggup datang sejauh ini untuk bertemu dengan saya, yang tiada apa-apa, di Janda Baik.... mungkin ini adalah kerja Allah, terus saya menerima tugasan tersebut. Tiada pengeras disebut atau dituntut dari saya, ia adalah suatu bentuk perawatan, bukan suatu bentuk transaksi perniagaan.

Perawatannya....

Untuk komplikasi kesihatannya, saya merujuk beliau pada seorang profesor yang dipercayai sebagai rujukan kesnya dan selepas rawatan 2 bulan komplikasi kesihatannya dapat diselesaikan. Manakala hal-hal psikiatrinya (mental/jiwa), adalah suatu cabaran dan apa yang mampu saya lakukan hanyalah menawarkan nasihat dan kaunseling, maka kami banyak meluangkan masa bersama samada di talipon atau berjumpa sendiri.

Saya telah membuat beberapa sesi kaunseling “satu dengan satu” (one on one) dan keluarga terdekat sehingga pada ketikanya Mama memberitahu, beliau berasa bersalah menghabiskan banyak masa saya bersama mereka, berbanding dengan tugasan semasa saya.

Oleh yang demikian, Mama membuat apa yang sepatutnya seorang ibu akan buat, beliau menawarkan bayaran untuk masa yang saya luangkan untuk membantu anaknya. Beliau bertegas dan sangat ikhlas dalam hal ini. Maka saya menerimanya.

Dengan detik masa yang berlalu, saya menyedari Aishah telah mula memendam perasaannya terhadap saya....pada ketika itu saya agak terkejut kerana saya sudah mempunyai seseorang yang sangat saya cintai “sayang”. Saya tidak akan mendedahkan siapakah gerangannya kerana dia tiada kaitan langsung dengan kisah ini.

Ia adalah sesuatu yang sangat sukar untuk saya tidak mengendahkan Aishah atau menjauhinya begitu sahaja kerana beliau adalah pesakit saya, saya terpaksa melayannya (merawat) sama sahaja, dan sebagaimana anda maklum, saya sedang membantu (merawat) komplikasi psikiatrinya (mental/jiwa), dan adalah sesuatu yang sangat komplikated untuk ditangani......

Saya terus merawat dan meluangkan masa bersamanya dengan memberinya nasihat dan kaunseling....kekadang dengan kehadiran Sayang saya. Saya sangat menghormati dan kagum pada Sayang saya memandangkan dia seorang yang sangat tabah melalui perkara ini bersama saya. Dia merupakan seorang yang sangat memahami (understanding) yang pernah saya kenali dalam hidup saya.

Tuhan sahaja yang tahu betapa saya sangat mencintainya. Dengan izin Allah, kami akan berkahwin suatu hari nanti, kerana perhubungan kami sudah terjalin beberapa tahun.

Saya tidak menyalahkan Aishah ke atas apa yang telah beliau lakukan terhadap saya atau memendam perasaannya terhadap saya kerana saya memahami situasi dan komplikasinya, terutamanya selepas raja kita mangkat. Maka pada ketika itu, saya melakukan apa yang orang terhormat dapat lakukan. Saya ada di sisinya, mendengar, dan sebagai pendengar yang baik.

Hidup adalah suatu keseimbangan. Seumpama semua hidupan di alam semesta. Ada pasang surutnya. Pada kebiasaannya, bukan selalu keluarga kita menjadi kalangan yang terbaik meluahkan perasaan dan pemikiran. Setiap orang memerlukan seorang kawan. Seperti pepatah Inggeris, “a friend in need, is a friend indeed”. Dalam keadaan beliau pada masa itu, beliau telah disekat menjalinkan mana-mana persahabatan dan kerana itu, jelas saya telah menjadi kawannya.

Saya sangat berterima kasih kepada keluarga beliau, terutama Mama dan Dato Seri kerana telah memberi kepercayaan kepada saya untuk merawat mantan Permaisuri kita yang dikasihi, dengan persetujuan untuk merawat beliau, saya sedar bahawa saya telah mengambil suatu tanggungjawab yang sangat berat pada bahu saya.

Saya juga ingin mengambil kesempatan ini untuk berterima kasih kepada ayahanda saya (Syed Hussien Al Attas) yang sejak kecil lagi telah mendidik saya bagaimana melayan orang dengan kasih sayang dan keprihatinan memandangkan kita semua adalah makhluk Tuhan. Saya bersyukur kepada ayahanda saya yang memberi saya kasih sayang dan keperihatinannya serta banyak nasihat yang sangat bermanafaat dan berkongsi kebijaksanaannya bersama saya untuk mengharungi kehidupan saya.

Saya tidak menyalahkan keluarganya membawa beliau bertemu dengan saya, kerana ia adalah perkara biasa kepada sesiapapun untuk mendapatkan cara bagaimana dapat membantu mereka yang dikasihi kembali kepada kehidupan untuk dikecapi dengan sepenuhnya. Saya sangat gembira melihat beliau mempunyai sebuah keluarga yang mempunyai nilai-nilai kualiti dan prinsip yang murni.

Mama dan Dato Seri, telah berusaha sepenuhnya dengan pelbagai jenis rawatan namun tiada rezeki, maka mereka menemui saya untuk mendapatkan rawatan pilihan (alternative).
Saya memaklumkan Mama dan Dato Seri selepas beberapa pertemuan bahawa komplikasi Aishah bukanlah atas dasar Kerohanian (Spiritual based) tetapi lebih kepada hal-hal psikiatrik (mental/jiwa).

Saya bukan menyatakan bahawa beliau gila atau tidak waras....sebaliknya beliau memerlukan banyak bantuan, sokongan dan panduan untuk membuka hati dan mindanya untuk melupakan perkara-perkara yang lepas. Kemungkinan kerana itulah rawatan kerohanian (spiritual treatment) tidak banyak dapat membantunya.

Selepas banyak maklumbalas dan pemerhatian dari pihak beliau, saya dapati salah satu sebab beliau berada dalam keadaannya sekarang adalah kerana beliau terkurung di rumahnya. Mungkin di dalam zon selamatnya sendiri. Menangani perkara-perkara yang lepas, atau mungkin cuba melegakan keadaan atau cuba menafikan kewujudan realiti semasa atau masa hadapan. Membantutkan pertumbuhan mindanya.

Mari kita hadapi kenyataan ini, letakkan diri kita berada di tempatnya.

Apa yang akan ANDA lakukan selepas anda melalui apa yang telah dilaluinya???

Bagaimana anda membawanya kembali kepada kenyataan???

Bagaimana anda membantunya hidup dalam keadaan yang normal???

Dari keadaan seorang Permaisuri dan kembali kepada di mana ianya bermula....

Adakah anda menjadi orang yang sama selepas suatu perubahan darjat atau kedudukan dikenali seantero dunia, dan mendapati semuanya telah hilang sekelip mata?

Bersambung...

read earlier post :http://malaysiansmustknowthetruth.blogspot.com/2010/11/exposed-romance-between-permaisuri-siti_19.html

courtesy of UncleSeekers