Year Three book teaches that girls will be ostracised, bring disrepute to families
should they not guard their modesty, sexuality
This is victim shaming
"Pendidikan Jasmani dan Kesihatan" textbook
story of Amira who "takes care of her sexual parts"
covers up, closes doors when changing clothes
story of Amira who "takes care of her sexual parts"
covers up, closes doors when changing clothes
says if Amira does not take care, she would be shamed
ostracised by friends, bring disrepute to her family
ostracised by friends, bring disrepute to her family
Blaming and shaming girls cannot be right
This is 2019. Boys need to be taught how to respect girls
Read more at https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2019/01/15/parents-say-year-three-book-encourages-victim-shaming/#qhKREVkbzTV664fU.99
My comments : What about teaching the boys that taking drugs, being unemployed Mat Rempits, gang raping girls, peeping into their sisters bedrooms [hence that warning about "closing doors when changing clothes"], committing incest etc "will be ostracised, bring disrepute to families" ??
Isnt it important to teach the boys about that as well? Seeing that such things are happening in some proportion in our country. How come they just pick on the girls and make the girls feel dirty and guilty ?
This is the very sick culture of 'suka sangat untuk mengaibkan orang lain'.
When their own people get caught with their pants down, literally, like that Mat Spenda fellow, the Brader with that China Doll or that Ferrari fellow with some woman, then they will start shouting "jangan aibkan orang", 'jangan buka aib orang'.
Pi dah mabuk. Kepala hotak hangpa. Jangan buka aib orang? Habis pasal apa hang pi buka seluar hang? Depan-depan video camera lagi? Bila hang buat ok ke?
Now you are trying to aibkan ALL the Year Three school girls even before they get molested or raped. You are trying to shame them. [Tidak disukai rakan? Maruah keluarga tercalar?] This way when you [yes lah YOU] rape them tomorrow, it is they who will be made to feel ashamed and go into hiding and YOU can happily go and rape someone else. That is how I see this Year Three textbook.
Here is something from the UK. This is more useful. They are giving their young people practical advice, including If you get into a relationship here are the dos and donts.
My comments : What about teaching the boys that taking drugs, being unemployed Mat Rempits, gang raping girls, peeping into their sisters bedrooms [hence that warning about "closing doors when changing clothes"], committing incest etc "will be ostracised, bring disrepute to families" ??
Isnt it important to teach the boys about that as well? Seeing that such things are happening in some proportion in our country. How come they just pick on the girls and make the girls feel dirty and guilty ?
This is the very sick culture of 'suka sangat untuk mengaibkan orang lain'.
When their own people get caught with their pants down, literally, like that Mat Spenda fellow, the Brader with that China Doll or that Ferrari fellow with some woman, then they will start shouting "jangan aibkan orang", 'jangan buka aib orang'.
Pi dah mabuk. Kepala hotak hangpa. Jangan buka aib orang? Habis pasal apa hang pi buka seluar hang? Depan-depan video camera lagi? Bila hang buat ok ke?
Now you are trying to aibkan ALL the Year Three school girls even before they get molested or raped. You are trying to shame them. [Tidak disukai rakan? Maruah keluarga tercalar?] This way when you [yes lah YOU] rape them tomorrow, it is they who will be made to feel ashamed and go into hiding and YOU can happily go and rape someone else. That is how I see this Year Three textbook.
Here is something from the UK. This is more useful. They are giving their young people practical advice, including If you get into a relationship here are the dos and donts.
They do not tell the girls that if they get molested or raped they will "bring disrepute to their families".
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