Too many people often get started without commitment. As a result, they waste valuable time and energy on pursuits that they will give up after a few months of haphazard effort. Action without persistence is a waste of time.
It is useful to ask yourself what your level of commitment is to a project or goal before starting. Measuring persistence is not easy. The only true way to know your persistence level is to work on a project and see when you give up. If you quit a goal after two years, your degree of persistence is two years.
Unfortunately,
most of us do not have years of our lives to waste just to measure the level of
commitment to a new project. Although it would not measure up to the real
thing, you believe there is a thought experiment that comes pretty close to
pinpointing the actual value.
Are You
Willing to Work Forever?
Pick any goal you
want to measure your persistence for. Now, ask yourself how long you
would be willing to work on the goal, without any positive feedback. How
long would you be willing to work on a project, without being able to see any
results from your efforts?
That length of
time is a rough estimate of your commitment to a project. Notice you did
not ask how long you would be willing to work on a project. Instead, you
asked, how long you would be able to work in a vacuum, devoid of any knowledge
that you were making progress.
If you want to get
in shape, ask yourself how long you would be willing to go to the gymnasium
every day, if you did not lose a single pound, did not increase at all in
strength, or did not look any different. How long would you be willing to
last?
If you want to
start a business, ask yourself how long you would be willing to keep
experimenting and producing without earning a single ringgit of revenue.
Or receiving an indication that your business would continue.
Persisting
Forever is Stupid
Obviously, working
forever without any results means you are doing something wrong. Either
you have picked an impossible pursuit (try flying by flapping your arms) or
your approach is completely broken.
However, as a
thought experiment, this question is still valuable. There are going to
be periods in the pursuit of any goal, where you will completely lack positive
feedback. You would not have any motivational fuel to encourage you
forward. The question is based on how long you feel you can continue in
spite of this total absence of results.
Avoiding
Projects with Short Persistence Values
You should avoid
starting projects that have low persistence values. If you cannot
honestly give a high persistence value for a project, do not bother starting
it.
What is a high
persistence value? It depends on the pursuit, but the safest value is,
“forever”. “Forever” in the literal sense means an infinite amount of
years, your entire lifespan, or some other unimaginably long period of
time. But in this context, it simply means that you are not relying on
positive feedback to motivate you forward. If you were able to continue
towards a goal forever, without seeing results, you are in the safest position
to pursue a goal.
Once again, this
is a thought experiment, not reality. Even if your persistence value for
a goal is “forever”, that does not mean you do not expect to see results
somewhere along the way. It just means you would not give up, even if
they do not appear.
Few of your
projects will have such high persistence values. But you should still
think a high value is important, even if you would not devote your entire life
to a project. Steve Pavlina suggested that most online small
businesses take 3 to 5 years to become successful. This means that if you
are planning to start a website, but your persistence threshold is six months,
do not even bother starting.
Similarly, you may
believe the minimum persistence value needed for getting into shape is a
year. Although it is possible to make significant progress in just a few
weeks, that is not always the case. You might spend months at the same
level as new habits are forming or you may reach a plateau in your
conditioning.
Persistence
is not Motivation
You may have a
“forever” level of persistence (at least hypothetically) towards the most
important areas of your life. There is no time-limit where you would
decide to give up on being healthy, having fulfilling relationships, or working
for something you are passionate about. More specific dreams have
somewhat shorter values, but you try to make them as long as possible.
Having values of
“forever” for some goals is not a matter of motivation. Motivation is the
urge to seek positive feedback. Persistence is the ability to continue
forward in the complete absence of any. Motivation cannot push you
forward in a pursuit you would continue even if you never received any positive
feedback.
Instead, you
believe persistence is a combination of patience and an intrinsic desire to do
the activity. Running a business for you is a near “forever” in terms of
persistence. You need to be patient in that you do not expect any
immediate feedback for any business effort you take on. In
addition, you may love writing, creating new products, selling, and being
your own boss. Even if you were forced to run these as a no-income hobby,
the value would be high enough that you would be able to continue 'forever'.
Video games are very popular because they supply near-constant feedback for actions. Kill the enemy monster, get experience points. Life is not a video game. There are often huge gaps where there is little reward for hard work. The longer and more difficult a project, the larger these vacuums can be. Motivation is important, but it is also important to be able to persist through those seemingly infinite valleys.
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