From Tan Peck Leong
The harrowing case of Teo Jia Xin, convicted of the murder of her newborn child in Coventry, UK, has sent shockwaves across the world. Teo gave birth alone in her bathroom, placing the baby girl in a cereal box out of fear, according to court testimony.
As an educator and a parent, I feel the weight of this tragedy deeply. This story speaks to the intersection of two lives: a baby who never had a chance to live and a young mother whose ignorance and desperation now place her in prison.
How did society create an environment where a young girl believed that hiding her pregnancy and concealing a birth was her only option? This situation challenges us to reflect on our cultural, educational, and social systems.
Some have suggested that fear, not malice, drove Teo to her desperate act – fear of judgement from her parents, gossip from peers and social condemnation.
In many parts of the world, especially in conservative societies, a strong stigma persists around unplanned pregnancies. Young women like Teo are left feeling isolated and trapped, believing they have no support or escape. Teo’s case is a stark reminder of the emotional and psychological pressures young people face today, and the fatal consequences that can follow.
The tension between societal progress and traditional norms means that we may preach openness but still harbour judgement. When fear governs young minds, they are often forced to hide the very things for which they most need support.
Sex education
At the heart of this tragedy lies another uncomfortable truth: our education system failed Teo. Sex education remains taboo in many communities. Where it does exist, it is often inadequate, limited to biological facts without addressing emotional, social and mental aspects of relationships, pregnancy and parenthood.
Without the proper knowledge, many young people lack the tools to make informed decisions about their sexual health. If we want to prevent future tragedies, comprehensive sex education is essential – teaching not only about reproduction but also about responsibility, support networks, and access to care.
Our moral and religious frameworks must evolve to guide young people toward love and responsibility, not guilt and exclusion. True morality should empower them to seek help in difficult times, not push them further into secrecy and despair.
Teach values
This is a moment for religious leaders and educators alike to rethink how we teach values – balancing accountability with compassion.
The digital world adds another layer of complexity. Social media and virtual interactions can amplify feelings of isolation. The fear of public shaming on social platforms is real and deeply felt by young people. This virtual reality can desensitise us, making it harder to extend empathy and engage in meaningful, supportive relationships.
As a result, young people may feel disconnected from real-world support systems, turning inward during moments of crisis. Teo’s story reminds us of the importance of fostering genuine human connections in a digital age where image and reputation seem to matter more than compassion and care.
Do things differently
Ultimately, this case reveals that we have failed – not only as educators but also as families, communities and a society; this tragedy reflects a collective failure that we must confront.
We must dare to do things differently, to build a society where young people feel empowered to seek help, where mistakes are met with understanding, and where every life is treated with the dignity it deserves.
Let us not wait for another tragedy to strike before we act.
The Teo case is also a poignant reminder that human capital is not just about education or economic output. It involves nurturing individuals in all dimensions of life. A society’s true wealth lies in its people, not merely as economic agents but as well-rounded individuals who can thrive, contribute meaningfully and make responsible decisions.
A society that values human capital development holistically will not only avoid such tragedies but thrive – where every individual, no matter their circumstances, is empowered to live with dignity, purpose and hope. - FMT
Tan Peck Leong is a professor of development economics at Universiti Teknologi Mara.
The views expressed are those of the writer and do not necessarily reflect those of MMKtT.
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