Expert urges parents to start early on sex education

 

An early start will help break down the stigma surrounding conversation about sex education, says an expert. (Envato Elements pic)

PETALING JAYA: 

A reproductive rights advocate has urged parents to teach their children about body autonomy in their early years, which would help in breaking down the stigma surrounding conversation about sex education.

Dr Kamal Kenny, chairman of the Federation of Reproductive Health Associations, said parents play a key role in shaping their children’s beliefs and attitudes towards relationships and sexuality, as they are often the first people children turn to for advice in their early years.

Dr Kamal Kenny.

“It is important for parents to teach their children about the difference between a good and bad touch through the use of accurate and age-appropriate terms for body parts to help them understand their bodies better and promote a sense of ownership over their physical selves,” he told FMT.

Kenny also said parents should be consistent in fostering an open dialogue about sexual health with their children from a young age, creating a safe space where they feel comfortable asking questions without fear of being judged.

“Answer questions honestly and without shame, regardless of how awkward or uncomfortable they might seem.

“Parents should also avoid shaming or stigmatising, and respond to their child’s curiosity with understanding, patience and clear information rather than shame or embarrassment,” he said.

He lauded the education ministry’s plan to incorporate the Reproductive and Social Health Education (PEERS) module into the 2027 school curriculum, which he said was a “crucial and progressive step forward” in delivering comprehensive sex education to the younger generation.

However, he said, the success of the module hinged on the development of a well-structured curriculum that is age-appropriate, culturally sensitive and taught by qualified educators.

“Instructors should be trained to teach these subjects in a professional manner and be able to offer perspectives that may not be available at home, particularly in cases where parents may be uncomfortable discussing certain topics,” he said.

Noor Azimah Rahim.

Noor Azimah Rahim, chairman of the Parent Action Group for Education, stressed the need for parents to build trust with their children, particularly as they enter adolescence and become more influenced by their peers’ opinions.

“Once trust and respect are established, both parties will find it easier to be more open about sex education and the stigma attached to it,” she said.

Education minister Fadhlina Sidek said the PEERS module, which will run from preschool to secondary school, will be incorporated into the curriculum under health education to address the rising number of teenage pregnancies in the nation.

She said the module will empower students with the necessary psycho-social skills to make informed decisions about their sexual health.

The health ministry said 44,263 cases of teen pregnancies have been recorded over the past five years, with 17,646 cases involving unmarried teenagers. - FMT