We must move beyond symbolism to mould a nation that sees beyond the food someone eats or the house of worship he patronises, and that must start at school.

When a child refuses to share a table with another child because one eats pork, we are no longer talking about a minor classroom incident. We are talking about a failure of national education.
Malaysia’s schools are now producing children who see difference as contamination, faith as a barrier, and fellow Malaysians as people to be avoided.
This is not unity. It is segregation being taught early, quietly and dangerously.
A warning from the classroom
Puncak Borneo MP Willie Mongin recently revealed that some primary school pupils had refused to sit beside classmates of another faith. Among the reasons were that a classmate was eating pork or wearing a cross.
Let that sink in.
Children young enough to still be learning multiplication tables are already being taught, directly or indirectly, that another child’s food, religion or symbol makes them unworthy of friendship.
Do not hide behind the excuse that “children repeat what they hear at home”. Of course, families matter.
But schools are where society either corrects prejudice or normalises it. If a child can carry such intolerance into a classroom without being firmly challenged, then the classroom has failed.
Unity cannot remain a slogan
For decades, Malaysia has recited the Rukun Negara, held unity-themed assemblies and printed national slogans on walls, banners and exercise books.
Yet what is the value of a national principle if a child will not sit beside another child because of what that child eats or believes?
The Rukun Negara is not decoration. It is not a mural. It is not a slogan for official events. If it means anything, it must be visible in how children treat one another every day, in classrooms, canteens, playgrounds and school buses.
Our education system has become too comfortable with symbolism. It celebrates diversity on stage but often fails to build genuine relationships across communities in daily school life.
Separate childhoods, divided futures
Malaysia’s national, Chinese and Tamil primary schools reflect our multicultural reality. Preserving mother tongues and cultural identity is legitimate and necessary.
But preserving identity must not mean raising children in social isolation.
When pupils spend their formative years largely among those who look, pray, eat and speak like them, anything different becomes unfamiliar. And unfamiliarity easily induces fear. Fear becomes prejudice. Prejudice breeds rejection.
How can we expect adults to build a united Malaysia if, as children, they were never given real opportunities to know one another?
Joint sports, debates, arts, science projects, community service and shared classrooms must not be occasional photo opportunities. They must be routine, structured and compulsory parts of school life, not pleasing politicians for their occasional visit to school.
Stop pretending the system is fair
We must also stop pretending that education policy is neutral.
For too long, access to opportunities, scholarships, school placements and pathways has been viewed through racial lenses.
Whatever the original intention, the consequence is clear: many young Malaysians grow up believing that their future depends more on their ethnicity than their effort, talent or need.
Helping the disadvantaged is right. But assistance must be transparent, needs-based and accountable. A system that leaves one community feeling privileged and another feeling excluded cannot claim to be building unity.
A child who believes the system does not value them equally will not easily believe the nation values them equally.
Malaysia built on community effort
Our history lessons must stop being exercises in memorising dates and names. They must teach the harder truth: Malaysia was built through negotiation, compromise and cooperation among communities that did not always share the same faith, language or customs.
Tunku Abdul Rahman, Tun Tan Siew Sin and Tun VT Sambanthan came from different communities, yet they worked towards one national objective: independence.
If our founding leaders could sit at the same table and build a nation, why should a child today refuse to sit beside a classmate because of pork or a cross?
No community owns Malaysia. Every community helped build it. Every community has a stake in protecting it.
The education ministry must answer
This is not a problem to be passed to the national unity ministry while the education ministry (MoE) hides behind curriculum documents.
The MoE must answer directly:
- Why are children absorbing religious intolerance in schools?
- Are teachers trained to identify and confront prejudice early?
- Are schools required to create meaningful interaction across communities?
- Are incidents of discrimination investigated, recorded and corrected?
- Are school leaders held accountable when unity exists only in speeches?
If the ministry cannot enforce the values it preaches, then it is not merely failing pupils. It is failing Malaysia.
Make unity measurable
National unity must become part of every subject, every school and every level of education.
Kindergartens must teach children to play, share and cooperate across backgrounds. Primary and secondary schools must run regular joint programmes with schools of different streams.
History, literature and civics must teach shared nationhood, not narrow narratives. Group work must deliberately bring children out of familiar ethnic and religious circles.
Teachers need training in inclusive classroom practices, religious literacy and conflict resolution. Textbook writers must be held accountable for accuracy, balance and the removal of stereotypes, not mere focus on any one community.
And the ministry must publish measurable indicators: pupils’ sense of belonging, participation in cross-community activities, teacher preparedness, complaints handled and corrective action taken.
Unity must be assessed, not merely announced.
The future is sitting in our classrooms
A child who refuses to share a table today may become an adult who refuses to share a country tomorrow.
This is the harsh truth Malaysia must face: our education system is not merely underperforming academically; it is failing in its duty to mould Malaysians.
We can continue producing students with excellent grades but shallow citizenship. Or we can rebuild schools into places where children learn that faith, food, language and culture must never determine who deserves their friendship.
Malaysia’s future will not be decided only in parliament or boardrooms. It will be decided at classroom tables, where children either learn to see one another as strangers, or as fellow Malaysians. - FMT
The views expressed are those of the writer and do not necessarily reflect those of MMKtT

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